Thursday, October 23, 2008

Teen Fall Fashion--Stylish and Inexpensive

Stretch Your Current Wardrobe

Worried about the economy? Your wardrobe doesn't have to add more stress. Here are five great ways to get more looks out of what you already have.

1. Add a scarf. SCARVES are HOT! They add color, keep you warm, and an interesting one can be purchased for about $20. Better then jewelry, they are functional and get you noticed.

2. Raid a friend's jewelry box. Your trash may be a friend's treasure. Buy a new basic and then ask a friend to borrow accessories she no longer wears.

3. Match new combinations. Today's style is all about layering. Pick up inexpensive short or long sleeve t-shirts and put them under your summer favorites, add bright legging with sweaters for something new and top it off with a scarf, or layer t-shirts and show a rainbow of colors at your neckline.

4. Go for quality not quantity. Opt for wool or cotton sweaters on the racks that will last three or four seasons, rather than acrylic that will lose its shape before the season is out. Stick with basic colors like black, navy or brown and then change out the accessories over the seasons.

5. Opt for a new sweater over another pair of jeans. While the manufacturers entice shoppers with new cuts and washes, jeans are jeans after all. With limited dollars, update your wardrobe with a new and distinctive top, rather than more denim.

Five Fashions For Fall

Scarves. Stripes, prints, rich colors. Wrap them around your neck for color and style.

Wide-legged jeans.
Comfy and a change from bootcut. Don't go overboard on these. One pair is plenty.

Leggings. They're back and fun! Raspberry, turquoise, bright yellow. Go wild for less than $20 a pair.

New Shapes. Black sweaters are here to stay, but this year's models offer new twists: longer, double breasted, belled sleeves.

Layering. T-shirt under t-shirt, longsleeves with shortsleeves. Be daring, and comfortable, and use color to make your personal statements.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Shopping with Teens and Tweens--How to Have Fun and Find Common Ground

“No, it’s too short.”

“You like that???”

“You’re not wearing that.”

“Mom!!!”

Such conversations are heard in malls across America. Unfortunately, there aren’t a lot of great shopping choices. The big box stores offer redundant fare: grunge, revealing tops, dozens of the same old thing, and an environment that makes it hard to even think. Shopping then becomes selecting from bad options.

However, shopping together does not have to be drudgery. It can be a fun experience, for daughters and their moms. My fourteen year old daughter, Alex, and I are becoming local experts on dressing teens and tweens in style and fashions that they will love, and their mothers will not hate.

Here are a few suggestions for moms and daughters to improve your shopping experience.

Allow time to shop. Kids are already rushed. Making special purchases the day before they are needed increases stress for both moms and daughters. Rushing creates stress, especially if you are looking for something in particular. Think ahead of those special events and shop early. Even if you do not purchase the item early, you get a sense of style and the options that are available.

Try something different. The old adage applies: if you do what you always did, you will get what you always got. Look in a new store or check out a new department. Try something on you would not have considered in the past. Go to a different mall. You will be surprised what happens when you shop in different surroundings.

Watch their eyes. Regardless of what they eventually say, I have learned to tell instantly whether a teen likes something or not. They know instantly if it excites them. Keep your eyes open and you can learn to tell too. Remember: our style is not our daughter’s style, and that is just fine. After all, you would not like everything in your best friend’s closet. So do not expect your daughter and you to always agree on what’s cute.

Speak concretely, not emotionally. You can, however, agree on whether it’s appropriate. Shopping can be a test of wills, but it does not have to be. If you feel a garment is too revealing or too bold, say so and describe why. Describe why a garment is inappropriate in concrete terms, rather than from an emotional reaction. Our girls wear what the market offers them. If we don’t stand up for our daughters and declare what is appropriate and what is not, the market will not change, and we will continue to be stuck with same limiting options we’ve always had.

Whether you enjoy shopping or not, shopping together offers time together. It can be a time of give and take, of gaining insight, of simply laughing in each other’s company. Enjoy!


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